Every parent wants their child to follow a good path, not to do anything wrong, but often knowingly and unknowingly, parents say things to the child, which have a very bad effect on their heart and mind. When talking to children, be aware of what you are saying and what the consequences may be.
As the child grows up, his curiosity to know about new things increases. Often it means something different. Parents should always be careful that the child does not misinterpret anything. If you want your child to walk in the right and true path, then do not say some things against him even by mistake.
“Never talk bad about your partner in front of a child”
Many times people get angry with their partner and start talking bad about him in front of the child. Starts criticizing the family member in front of the child. At that time people forget that the child also spends time with other people. In such a situation, they start to feel the dilemma from your words. Often the child starts hating the person you are talking about.
“Fear of Responsibilities”
Never talk about money or illness while talking to children. When parents get tensed about money and talk about it in front of their children, children also get tensed. They are also scared. It is not their job to handle financial problems at such a young age.
“Comparison with other children”
It is not right to compare a child with someone else. When you compare your child with others, the child unconsciously creates an inferiority complex in his mind. Their faith begins to crumble. They start feeling stressed. Similarly when you tell your child that he is better than everyone else it also has a wrong effect on his mind. He begins to perceive himself as superior to others and inferior to others.
“I wish you weren’t born”
No matter how much you are angry with the child, do not even mistakenly say to the child, ‘I wish you had never been born.’ A child would never like to hear such a thing from his parents. Hearing such a thing hurts his heart. His self-esteem is also hurt. It comes to his mind that no one likes him.
